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Posted on Friday, September 18, 2009 at 12:38PM by Registered CommenterNeil | Comments9 Comments

I've waited a long time to write this post...... For nearly three years now I've been trying to sustain progress on the project whilst balancing the demands of full time employment, family, friends and a 'normal' life. For the most part I think I managed fairly well but, as regular readers will know, this last 6 months or so saw things change. It started with frustration at lack of progress and developed into a burning desire to change things. I realised that if 'Gleda' were ever to be finished and, even more importantly, if I was ever going to go sailing seriously, then I had to achieve two things. I needed more free time and I needed more money. Not much to ask for eh?!! It would probably be easier to find the Holy Grail! My old self would have said "dream on.... and keep buying the Lottery tickets because there's no other way sunshine". Well I've changed, I'm no longer prepared to accept that, I'm no longer prepared to be one of the 'unlucky' ones watching with envious eyes those who have it all. I know without a shadow of a doubt that I can get to where I want to be, it's just a matter of wanting it badly enough.... and I do!

So how do I get more time and more money? Well time is fairly easy isn't it? Where do most of us spend the bulk of our waking hours? Working for 'The Man' so as to have enough money for shelter sustenance and maybe a bit of pleasure. Now I know that's not true for those who have a vocation and truly love what they do, but I submit that the majority of us would quit tomorrow if we had enough money in the bank. How did we get to a point in our civilisation where it's considered admirable to defer real freedom to enjoy life until the age of 65 or later! I thank Tim Ferriss for illustrating this point so well in his book The 4-hour Work Week: Escape the 9-5, Live Anywhere and Join the New Rich. In the book he describes retirement as 'Worst-Case-Scenario Insurance' - Here is the exact text:

Retirement planning is like life insurance.  It should be viewed as nothing more than a hedge against the absolute worst case scenario: in this case, becoming physically incapable of working and needing a reservoir of capital to survive. Retirement as a goal or final redemption is flawed for at least three solid reasons:

  1.  It is predicted on the assumption that you dislike what you are doing during the most physically capable years of your life.  This is a non-starter, nothing can justify this sacrifice.
  2. Most people will never be able to retire and maintain even a hot dogs for dinner standard of living.  Even one million is chump change in a world where traditional retirement could span 30 years and inflation lowers your purchasing power 2-4% per year.  The math doesn't work.  The golden years become lower-middle-class life revisited.  That's a bittersweet ending.
  3.  If the math does work, it means that you are one ambitious, hard-working machine.  If that's the case, yes, what?  One week into retirement, you'll be so damn bored that you'll want to stick bicycle spokes in your eyes.  You'll probably opt to look for a new job or start another company. Kind of defeats the purpose of waiting, doesn't it?

By the way I read Tim's book some time back and it's really thought provoking. Although there's some stuff in there that may be difficult to go with, the basic thrust of his theories, as can be seen from the text above, actually fit perfectly with those of us contemplating a long term life afloat. I recommend it, without doubt it was the starting point for where I am now.

Anyway to get back on track, the answer to finding more time was obvious..... give up the day job.  That leaves a bit of a glaring problem however, I don't have money in the bank.  That led me to start thinking about alternative ways to generate income that allowed more flexibility, and did not demand my constant attendance or attention.  This is what I have been working on over the past months and although I have yet to earn a penny I now know what I need to do and more than that I know without doubt that it will work (more on that later).  All that was required was for me to take massive action and make it happen.  So, last week, I gave one months notice to quit the secure, well-paid day job!  I can tell you that it was one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make, my self belief is high, but a decision like that is contrary to every rule in society's book.  If people doubted my sanity when I announced I was building a boat they now have no doubts that I should be sectioned immediately! Strangely once the deed was done, my overwhelming feeling was one of relief.  At last I was free to be honest and open about my plans and to focus on achieving them.  An hour later, however, there was an unexpected twist. my employer, who to their credit, claimed understanding and acceptance of my reasons for resignation, suggested that a compromise could be reached.  The end result is that I have signed a new six months rolling contract to work part time three days a week.  To be honest, it was a bit of a no-brainer and works well for both parties.

So there we have it.  A new chapter commences.  I have shifted the balance towards my final goal, and I am free to make the best use of my time and free be more open about my plans.  There are some scary times ahead and I'm under no illusions that it will be easy, but as I said, my mind is set and I will get there.  If you've read this far, you have my thanks for your interest.  Over the next few weeks, I will be working towards the change and I can promise many interesting things ahead for those that choose to follow me.

 

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Reader Comments (9)

Good on ya Neil,

I wish I could follow your path but, with two small children I to take things a little more conservatively. I too am breaking into the internet marketing world. Perhaps we can share notes? Please feel free to PM me.

All the best,
Paul
September 18, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterNonthawat
Good decision, good decision, good decision!
It really boils down to how you value your time, and how you value your money. I bet there have been times in your life, perhaps when you had a young family, when money was more valuable to you than your time. Since Gleda has been conceived, I guess that time is now more valuable to you than having a healthy bank account.
In the end you have come to an ideal scenario; 3 days working and the 4 remaining 4 days of the week for life and Gleda building.
Well done. The Gleda project has once again got "success" written all over it!
Best wishes
Adrian (kirabuilding) Hall.
September 20, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterAdrian
Hi Neil

Congratulations for taking the bull by the horns, took a lot of bottle and I applaud you for your decision, the rolling contract could not have worked out better for you. Will be watching your blog with interest and wish you the very best of Btitish.

All the very best

Chris
September 21, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterChris Harrell
Neil

Well done with your decision. Now you can really enjoy the rest of the build and then get sailing. I agree with the comments about retirement. I will be working until I 'pop my clogs' due to pensions shot to hell and the need to have motivation to get me out of bed. Working to meet a specific goal and get paid for it does not mean working 5 days a week and taking off a two day weekend. Why not work flexibly and do 1 day one week and 7 the next? You have the best of all solutions!

My situation has changed and I am now with Dee, who is enthusiastic about sailing. We are building sea time in Ateya IV and Dee completes her RYA Competent Crew course this weekend. Dee is also a demon chef!

I will try to get to see you soon.

Best wishes

Adrian
September 23, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterAdrian Honeybill
Hey Neil
Great decision, the Universe is certainly looking after you!! Its a funny thing but yotties once they make the commitment to go sailing do seem to get taken care of.
We are in Tonga now having had quite a rough passage from Bora Bora. Shauns, my partner has been offered a job in NZ as head of maths at an Auckland high school. Yup the Universe is back at work again so our income needs are now taken care of. Whether I can get back behind a desk again is another matter!!

Take care and keep up the good work, Gleda will be finished before you know it.
Dave
Dragon
September 24, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterDave Vinni
Neil, Excellent decision. Since I built Tsunamichaser, which I left a real job to do and paid for it and life by selling my monohull, it's been a string of contract jobs. Having spent the last 3 months sailing first on Aluna, then in my Gary Dierking canoe and finally on Tsunamichaser, I can truthfully say it works. I've met new people have new leads as to where to go next and how to pay for it. I love and really don't see going back to THE MAN. Dust off the cobwebs, fire up the epoxy making machine and get out there. No regrets.

Good Luck Thomas
September 24, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterThomas Nielsen
Neil,

once again, very happy to see that things are looking better now for you. You had me slightly worried for a while (that you may become a statistic, the overwhelming proportion of boatbuilders that start but never finish).

The coincidence of your timing is also phenomenal. I too informed my employer of almost 20 years (the Canadian Forces) that I was going sailing at the end of my current contract (20 years), in less that 6 months now. I had an amazing military career but time to do something else whilst I still have a few good years in me. All I will have is the safety net of a small military pension but after that, we shall see. I will not stop "working" (whatever that will mean in the future) otherwise I will be bored silly. Time will tell but last time I checked, I still have 2 good hands and a brain that works. Shouldn't be too difficult. I can also enjoy at least a couple of years cruising with my fantastic wife and my 2 great teenagers. They will be 15 and 13 by the time we leave so time will go too fast before they fly on their own wings.

Anyways, keep us all posted and good luck with the renewed focus on finishing Gleda!

Martin
September 24, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterMartin
Well done Neil,


Your employer is smart.
I have always thought that the working world had one big purpose: destroy your personal life, so you work more hours and are supposedly more productive. In the brainwashing mode. What they don't realize is that people get burned out and disgusted, may be it does not matter because they can then replace the worker. I doubt though that the productivity gains are there: everybody loses.
Anyway, each time I tried to get a 3 or 4 days week work it has been a no no. So bravo, bravo bravo to you and your employer, this is the way to go, and I am sure that your employer will find out that being in a great mood because you can move on your personal project you will be very productive, and you will be a very happy guy. It is a win-win situation. That really puzzle me that in a world were work is being scarce nobody wants to share it.
September 25, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJacques
And you are going to look younger too!!!
October 12, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterChristian Bodart

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